Desires aren’t just normal, they’re a healthy part of human existence. They help us move forward to where we want to go. They connect us to who we are, to who we are meant to be and to our greatest purpose in life. Desires = our ultimate destiny. They enforce big, important shifts.
The problem with dreams and desires is that they’re often accompanied by fear. We’re afraid that we won’t be good enough to achieve our dreams. We don’t know where to begin. We’re afraid that if we fail, we’ll be ridiculed. We’re scared that our desires may change over time.
And so, we keep them to ourselves.
We lock our dreams in our heads and hearts. We tell ourselves to aim lower. We silence our creativity.
But holding back on your dreams is one of the worst things that you can do in this life. Dreams don’t go away… they grow into regret.
I recently took a leap of faith. I have a dream to one day start a business that will bring women and girls on the journey to self love that I myself completed. I want to make this more accessible, acceptable, and sought-out. And I’ve started verbalizing this dream as much as I possibly can.
Here’s why I think that EVERYONE should stop what they’re doing and start shouting out their dreams RIGHT NOW.
1. The more you share you dream, the more likely it is to come true.
Manifestation 101- if you put it out in the universe, the universe works with you to make it happen. So don’t stop sharing what you want. Keep putting it out there, share your passion. The more energy and emphasis, the better. The world WANTS you to achieve your desires, guys! Let it work for you.
2. The amount of people who will rally to help you achieve your dream will astound you.
A few weeks ago I made the decision to invest in Mentor Masterclass as a first step to making my dream a reality. When I was first considering the class, it felt so “alternative” to me, nothing like the straight and narrow college to career path that I had taken my entire life. I was worried that I would be rejected for wanting to pursue this, that my family and friends would think I was off my rocker. I have been amazed that this couldn’t be further from the truth. Since I decided I wanted to take the class, I’ve found the most amazing of support from family, friends and acquaintances. I’ve had ex boyfriends, co-workers and Facebook friends volunteer to help or just share support. And most amazingly, my parents reacted in the exact opposite way I thought they would. They didn’t look at me like I was nuts, they didn’t try to talk me out of staying on the rational path. They supported me wholeheartedly. They smiled wide at the idea and they told me to go for it. They’re holding my hand through the process. The only person who thought that I was being crazy for wanting to do this was me. Support is all around.
3. More and more opportunities that will move you forward will arise.
Like attracts like. So, the more you make your desire into something tangible, a goal that you’re actually working towards, the more the path to achieving that desire will unfold. Tell one friend about your dream and bam! she knows of a class to help. Tell another and wam! he knows the perfect person to network with. And, verbalizing your desires helps to crystalize the resources that you’ll need to make it happen. The more you work through this, the more the path will naturally come to you.
4. You’ll realize you’ve had the power all along.
Nothing hurts us more than keeping our desires to ourselves. We hold back our creative voice, we tell ourselves that we’re not good enough to do what we truly want, we validate that negative voice in our heads that’s held us back for so long. In truth, the only person who can make your dreams happen is YOU. And 99% of that struggle is mental. If you believe you can do it, you will. This applies to absolutely everything in life. The sooner that you can learn to believe in yourself no matter what, no matter how big the dream, the sooner you will blossom into the life of your dreams.
5. You’ll master one of the most valuable life skills: how to sit in vulnerability.
Vulnerability. For many of us, we go to great lengths to avoid it. But as Brene Brown (one of my favorite human beings) teaches, vulnerability is the birthplace of creativity, innovation and change. Vulnerability brings our true selves into the open. And when we allow ourselves to be seen deeply, wholeheartedly, we call in love and joy. By showing yourself (all of yourself!) as you are, you’re inspiring meaningful change in your life.
What is one of your biggest dreams for your life? Tell me in the comments below and let the magic begin!